Welcome to my blog, my name is Nicole and my husband Jay and I are the proud parents of a sweet little baby James. The purpose of this blog is to share our son's battle with kidney failure and Posterior Urethral Valves with the intentions of giving hope and support to parents going through the same journey. I am not a doctor nor a specialist on this matter. I am simply a mother sharing her story and giving back to a world that has given us so much.
Even though it is long, here is my condensed explanation of our story.
My pregnancy started out just like any normal pregnancy. I had cravings, mood swings, mixed emotions, cankles...You know, the usual good and not so good things that come along with being pregnant. That all changed during a visit to the ER for what I thought was labor (turned out to be first timer jitters.) I was 32 weeks pregnant and all of my sonograms looked normal, wonderful actually until a tech took another one at the ER. My husband Jay and I knew something was wrong when the tech said she would be right back. Everyone knows when a doctor or nurse says they will be right back, there is something not quite right. About 5 minutes later the tech came back with the doctor in charge and they asked Jay and I if we knew about our son's kidneys. Of course we had no clue there was a problem since all of his other sonograms looked so good.
We followed up with my OB and he took another sonogram to confirm that there was actually an issue and not an error with the ER sonogram. Jay and I looked at the monitor to get another sneak peak at our precious little guy and had the most terrifying shock of our lives. I was a florist and Jay is a farmer so we have no clue how to read sonograms, but when the radiologist moved the wand over James' kidneys we saw a huge black "cyst" twice the size of his right kidney. It was clear, even to us, that there was something terribly wrong.
A few minutes later Jay and I sat down with the OB to go over the report. James had a distended "Keyhole" shaped bladder and a 4CM "cyst" on his right kidney. I say "cyst" because it is just a term they used for fluid buildup, it is not an actual cyst. We were referred to the top Pediatric Urologist in Maryland and after 2 very long weeks, we met him to go over our options and the possible outcomes. Basically, we had to wait until James was full term because the instruments used in investigating the problem we too big to use on a preterm baby. Another long and emotional wait!
I was scheduled for an induction on a Wednesday but James just could not wait, he decided to come out on Sunday 01/02/2011, a day late of being a New Years baby. There was a lack of communication at the hospital and James did not receive the tests and treatments he needed right away until 2 days later. Another sonogram was taken and it revealed that his other kidney was failing him and he had a creatinine level of 2.8 (.1-.59 should be the normal range for a newborn.) Finally he was transported to the University of Maryland NICU where he received all of the special care and tests he needed. By the time he was transfered his creatinine had gone up to 3.4. We are so fortunate to have such wonderful top rated hospitals in Maryland. I don't know what would have happened had James not received immediate care.
Let me tell you, the nurses and staff at the NICU are angels. There is no other way to describe them.
Let me tell you, the nurses and staff at the NICU are angels. There is no other way to describe them.
After 2 weeks of IV fluids, medications, tests (sonograms, VCUG, and a lot of blood work) and diet changes, James went in for surgery to repair whatever was wrong with his system. The surgery took about 15 minutes and the doctor confirmed that he had Posterior Urethral Valves. PUV is a condition where there are extra flaps of skin in the urethra which cause the urine to reflux into the kidney which then causes hydronephrosis . Usually 1 kidney will take in all of the reflux to save the other kidney. James' kidney took all it could take so the other kidney suffered major damage. The condition is only seen in males. I have included a "helpful links" page where you can find a more in depth explanation.
James chowing down |
James with his Great Granddad |
PUV is a lifelong condition. Even if the blockage is fixed and blood levels go down to normal, the child still has to be monitored throughout their entire life. There is no guarantee that the ureters will not continue to reflux and there is no way of telling how much good kidney tissue is left until the child is older. The good news is that so much research has gone into the condition, the chances for survival have gone up significantly. With the proper medications and diet, PUV can be easily and safely managed.
Please contact me if you have any questions about our experience. I left out a lot of little details which may be helpful to you, so feel free to ask anything at all.
Thank you for your time and interest in my story.
Wow, what a wonderful blog. And am not even sure what blogs are? I think both you and Jay are such wonderful parents. Alot can be healed with the power of Love.... And if thats the case then I know the future will only get brighter for you and your wonderful family. Ashley & I love BabyJames with all our heart. We are sad that we have not seen him lately with life being super crazy busy but as always he is in our prayers, he is in our hearts and we think of you three all the time. Hugs to You!! Cousin Ashley & Auntie Nita
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